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Here is your relationship spread (it's a bit more involved than the celtic cross ;D)
What you are bringing to the relationship: Ace of Wands (reversed) - (Something about NOT writing?? not writing either to yourself or someone else, and you probably should be?? confusing) Lately there has been a lack of energy, a lack of passion?
Where you are now in relation to your DH: 10 of Swords (reversec) - Not an "ending" but not a "fresh beginning" either... something about being in limbo... between stages... as if there is something between you both that has been left unsaid and because of that neither of you can move forward... does that make sense?
What you are hoping to get from the relationship: 9 of Pentacles - You are looking for success and contentment... you want everything to go according to "plan" to be at peace with yourself, your loved ones, and your surroundings...
What he is bringing to this relationship: The Moon (reversed) - (Does he have trouble admitting to his faults? Or taking responsibility for his actions... I feel like someone is playing a "blame game"...) An unwillingness to explore his inner self... to see his good attributes as WELL as his faults... he does not like to feel as if he is lacking in any way... insecurity...
What he is getting from your relationship: Wheel of Fortune- (some significance to the number 10) A fresh start, a new chapter on his life... (did he have a bad relationship before he met you? I'm feeling like there was a divorce??...) A reminder that change is inevitable, without change we do not grow (but I have the feeling he is having trouble shaking his old bad habits... he needs to be aware that our choices make our lives what they are,.. not everything comes about because of circumstance...)
What he is hoping to experience with you: 7 of cups - He can see and feel the potential in your relationship.. he has high goals, ideals, and dreams for what you can accomplish together... but if he is ever to bring those dreams to life he will need to get his head out of the clouds and do the work it takes to do that... he is hoping that you will help him... (I don't think he likes to ask for help... does he?)
How you see him: 2 of Pentacles - You think he's too much of a dreamer... kind of flies by the seat of his pants, and maybe a little frivolous... he has lots of great ideas, but not really good about finishing projects or putting those ideas into action... you love these things about him, but they DO frustrate you to distraction...
How he sees you: Page of Cups (reversed) - He feels like you are out of touch with your emotions... too practical and dogmatic... he wants to see the romantic in you... wants it to be the way it was in the beginning...
How you saw him when you first met: 5 of Swords - something about trust issues? Do you not trust men very much? I also get that he had a reputation that you may not have liked much... You were afraid of being hurt and "stabbed in the back"
How he saw you when you first met: The Hierophant - VERY smart, someone who was very much in control, (maybe a bit of a prude? lol) He saw you as someone who could help him to grow, someone he could respect, admire and love...
Your anxieties and unconscious fears: The Hermit - You need some time to look within... you do not like to be alone (is he deployed??) but this is a good time for you to take a CLOSE look at yourself, who you are and who you are becoming... take those things that you don't like and change them... use this time to get to know who you are INSIDE, as a woman, friend, and lover... not necessarily a wife and mother
HIS anxieties and unconscious fears: Ace of Cups (reversed) - He worries that he can't make you happy... that you would be better off elsewhere.. he doesn't want to lose you, but he feels that he may need to let you go...
External influences on you: The Sun - You feel a new energy and optimism... you are willing to learn and grow, but not quite sure of the direction to turn your energies just yet...
External influences on him: 4 of Wands - (he must be away from home) He is missing the comforts of home, the small pleasures that come from "nesting"
Where the relationship will go: 6 of Wands- You guys have EVERYTHING that you need to have a wonderful relationship full of life and passion, but each of you is afraid that you are NOT what the other wants/needs... you two balance one another, each of you fills a role or a piece that the other lacks... be sure that you BOTH know how much you mean to one another...
I hope this holds meaning for you hun
Take care,
Christina
... but keep in mind, it's BECAUSE I don't know you that you can trust that I'm telling you the truth.