Me too, Me too!!

[irishchick]

Ok can I get one too please? Well actually DBF and I???
I meant to ask you on the other board but I saw that you were bombarded~so I'll bombard you now!!
Whenever you get the chance, I'd appreciate it
His email is kapesch_j~do you need anything else?
THANK YOU!!

[Christina]

It's your turn girlfriend ;D

What you bring to the relationship: Queen of Swords (reversed) - Does he "soften" you a bit?? I'm getting that you're normally a fairly straightforward kind of gal, and that you CAN be a lil tough now and then.. .but he softens you up?

Where you are now, in relation to him: King of Cups - he has grown with you... he has reached a stage of emotional maturity that he had not had before you met.. and perhaps he may have surpassed you a little in that area??

What you are hoping to achieve w/him: Knight of Swords (reversed) - (is he air? or anything to do with air... or does he perhaps WANT to fly?? weird.. I'm seeing an Eagle and that you would RATHER he not be with that Eagle.. does that make sense to you??) Sorry, this is confusing to me...

What he brings to this relationship: The Lovers - only one thing to say here.. MASS sex appeal ... you two start FIRES when you are together lol

What he is getting from your relationship: 9 of Swords (reversed) - (did he have a sleeping problem? when he's not with you does he sleep poorly?) I see nightmares that you've somehow "chased" away...

What he is hoping to experience with you: Queen of Wands (reversed) - (ok this one is TOUGH... was there a girl before you who was a MAJOR drama queen?? someone who was SERIOUSLY high maintenence?? I'm getting that he appreciates that you are NOT like that... well, you may be a "little" but you make sure that you don't stress him out and try to deal with things like that on your own.. does that make sense??)

How you see him: 4 of Cups - You have EVERYTHING you need to have a happy life together, but you still feel as if something is "missing" or there is a piece that isn't quite there yet....

How he sees you: 7 of Wands (reversed) - He admires and respects you SO much, you are good at handling things when times get rough... you are vigilant, steadfast and like a cat you always land on your feet... one of the greatest strengths he sees in you and something he loves about you...

How you saw him when you first met: 3 of Swords - an ending to heartache? I'm getting a BAD breakup that he eased... teaching you to open your heart and love again? Something like that... it's hard to "see"...

How he saw you when you first met: 3 of Pentacles - FULL of potential... someone who would succeed and triumph at ANYTHING you set your mind to.. (boy this man has you on a pedestal lol) (Question, what is significant to you about the number 3 and when you guys met??)

Your anxieties/fears: Justice (#8 for some reason) - Something feels "unfair" and you BADLY want things to balance... to be fair....

His anxieties/fears: King of Pentacles (reversed) - I think he worries that he can provide the lifestyle that you may be accustomed to (did you grow up well off, where he may not have??) he worries about not being a good "breadwinner"...

External Influences on you: Knight of Cups (reversed) - You miss attention, you miss romance... (is there someone else trying to sneak into your life? a man trying to weasel in?? someone may be trying to be more romantic towards you and you are fending them off nicely, but be aware that when your man is out, you are VULNERABLE... be very careful... some men are not as harmless as they may appear to be...)

External Influences on him: Page of Pentacles (reversed) - is he up for re-enlistment or a promotion? I see him stressing over promotion or new duties... they are heavy on his mind right now...

Where the relationship will go: The Chariot - There are TWO distinct paths before you guys as a couple.. be certain that you CHOOSE this path TOGETHER... it will make all the difference...

Hope this holds meaning for you hun

Take care,
Christina

[irishchick]

Holy *&%! Girl!! I'm crying right now & I don't cry much
All of this is so true but I'll have to calm down a bit to respond to everything okay?

!$@#, your good...

[irishchick]

Christina, this is all so true! It really amazes me how dead on everything is. It was kinda freakin' me out so I wanted to absorb everything before I responded...but here goes...

What you bring to the relationship: Queen of Swords (reversed) - Does he "soften" you a bit?? I'm getting that you're normally a fairly straightforward kind of gal, and that you CAN be a lil tough now and then.. .but he softens you up?

~He definitely softens me up. I take a really long time to open up to people but with him it wasn't hard at all. Hell I was telling him things about meself right off the bat.

Where you are now, in relation to him: King of Cups - he has grown with you... he has reached a stage of emotional maturity that he had not had before you met.. and perhaps he may have surpassed you a little in that area??

~Before we met he was a manwhore! At first I didn't even like him because I thought he was really immature plus I felt this way because he's 4 yrs. younger than me. But he's a very mature & stable person. One thing he's got on me is that he knows who is he & what he wants in life & I'm still figuring some of that stuff out.

What you are hoping to achieve w/him: Knight of Swords (reversed) - (is he air? or anything to do with air... or does he perhaps WANT to fly?? weird.. I'm seeing an Eagle and that you would RATHER he not be with that Eagle.. does that make sense to you??) Sorry, this is confusing to me...

~Not sure what this is. He up for reenlistment & I really worry about that because of his current deployment. They did replace the 101st though (Screaming Eagles)...I'll have to ask him.

What he brings to this relationship: The Lovers - only one thing to say here.. MASS sex appeal ... you two start FIRES when you are together lol

~Not really much more to say!

What he is getting from your relationship: 9 of Swords (reversed) - (did he have a sleeping problem? when he's not with you does he sleep poorly?) I see nightmares that you've somehow "chased" away...

~We both have really bad sleeping problems when he's deployed or in the field. He does get really bad & tosses & turns alot. He even wakes up looking for me on occasion.

What he is hoping to experience with you: Queen of Wands (reversed) - (ok this one is TOUGH... was there a girl before you who was a MAJOR drama queen?? someone who was SERIOUSLY high maintenence?? I'm getting that he appreciates that you are NOT like that... well, you may be a "little" but you make sure that you don't stress him out and try to deal with things like that on your own.. does that make sense??)

~Not sure. One thing though, I'm having some problems with his Mom. I haven't met her yet but I am finding out that she's very high maintence & is trying to make him feel guilty for putting me first. Could this be the same?

How you see him: 4 of Cups - You have EVERYTHING you need to have a happy life together, but you still feel as if something is "missing" or there is a piece that isn't quite there yet....

~The only thing that I can really think that I'm missing in the relationship is a definite commitment. I get mixed messages sometimes but then again I'm paranoid so I may be reading into too much of what he says.

How he sees you: 7 of Wands (reversed) - He admires and respects you SO much, you are good at handling things when times get rough... you are vigilant, steadfast and like a cat you always land on your feet... one of the greatest strengths he sees in you and something he loves about you...

~I am. I think I'm a very strong person. He has said several times that he loves this about me. He just told me that he's glad that at least I understand what he's going through because his Mom doesn't even try.

How you saw him when you first met: 3 of Swords - an ending to heartache? I'm getting a BAD breakup that he eased... teaching you to open your heart and love again? Something like that... it's hard to "see"...

~Yup. I was still married when we met to a bastard. It was a very bad relationship & hard to leave at times because for some reason I thought I HAD to stay. I met dbf a few months after the bastard & I decided to end it. He definitely helped me to move on like no one else was able to. I started seeing other people but would feel guilty but with him I really didn't give a *&%!!!

How he saw you when you first met: 3 of Pentacles - FULL of potential... someone who would succeed and triumph at ANYTHING you set your mind to.. (boy this man has you on a pedestal lol) (Question, what is significant to you about the number 3 and when you guys met??)

~He does!!! I am SO lucky to be with him. He always encourages me to go to grad school. Should have seen him when I graduated in June..I think he was more excited than I was! His lucky number is 3. We met in May 2002 at Polly Esther's???

Your anxieties/fears: Justice (#8 for some reason) - Something feels "unfair" and you BADLY want things to balance... to be fair....

~Kind of do get tired of the Army thing. Having to deal with it coming first at times. I also feel that I pay for more things financially than he does although this may sound *&%!ty.

His anxieties/fears: King of Pentacles (reversed) - I think he worries that he can provide the lifestyle that you may be accustomed to (did you grow up well off, where he may not have??) he worries about not being a good "breadwinner"...

~Neither one of us grew up well off-both had single mothers & siblings. I do like to spend money though & I have expensive taste. He constantly worries about providing for us & our future. This is one of the reasons why he wants to get out of the Army.

External Influences on you: Knight of Cups (reversed) - You miss attention, you miss romance... (is there someone else trying to sneak into your life? a man trying to weasel in?? someone may be trying to be more romantic towards you and you are fending them off nicely, but be aware that when your man is out, you are VULNERABLE... be very careful... some men are not as harmless as they may appear to be...)

~I miss him like hell. There isn't another man trying to weasel in..don't even know of other men here besides my family. But before I came to Ohio some of our "friends" asked to make me dinner?? but I haven't spoken to them since. I do sometimes wonder if his Mom is trying to manipulate us & break us up eventually?? Not sure though.

External Influences on him: Page of Pentacles (reversed) - is he up for re-enlistment or a promotion? I see him stressing over promotion or new duties... they are heavy on his mind right now...

~He just got promoted to E-5!! His reenlistment is up in August & he's been going back & forth with it since he's been in the sandbox since November. He worries a lot about his guys & trying to keep their spirits up.

Where the relationship will go: The Chariot - There are TWO distinct paths before you guys as a couple.. be certain that you CHOOSE this path TOGETHER... it will make all the difference...

~I expect him to propose either at R&R in June or when he finally gets home for good. I know we'll get married-there's just no doubt about that one to me.

[Christina]

The Queen of Wands could very well be his mother... I don't know if it was an ex or what but a woman from his past who is very HIGH maintenance

Thanks for sharing, Hun.. I love to know if I'm REALLY seeing what I am seeing... and so long as it's meaningful to you guys, and even helps a bit... THAT is what really matters to me