Wow, you've only been waiting a YEAR!
I'm surprised you haven't strangled me yet
I may be a little off as I'm somewhat "rusty" and been VERY tired lately.. so if this sounds not at ALL like you, chalk it up to me dealing with some STRONG personalities at work
What you bring to this relationship: 5 of Wands: Some competition... you definitely keep him on his toes... watch out for little frustrations that can lead to blow up arguments right now.. the small stuff isn't worth the irritation.
Where you are now in relation to him: 5 of Swords reversed: You trust him implicitly.. one of the few people that you CAN trust and rely on in this way.
What you are getting out of this relationship: 9 of Pentacles reversed: Ok, whichever of you is the one who spends money like they're carrying it in a pocke with a hole in it needs to stop (and I think that's Robert
lol) money is something that ALL couples argue over at some point and it's SO not worth the aggravation.
What he brings to this relationship: Temperance, reversed: You've been through a lot, together and apart.. but he brings strength to this union, the ability to make it through the storms and the rages and whatever life throws at you... like a cat he has nine lives and always seems to manage to land on his feet. (something about smiling here)
What he is getting from this relationship: 5 of Pentacles reversed: Steady support... someone to help him curb his spendthrift ways
What he is hoping to achieve/experience with you: The Magician reversed: Hmmm... he looks to you for a lot of guidance... this is not fair to you as it places a great deal of the burdens you two should be SHARING on only your shoulders.. remind him that marriage is a PARTNERSHIP... and that you're not his mother
How you see him: Knight of Pentacles reversed: Yes, he brings home the bacon.. but he eats a lot of it too...
money flows through his fingers like water...
How he sees you: 10 of Swords reversed: Have you not been very nice to yourself in the past? There is a lot of buried pain that he recognizes, but sees the new and much happier you... the person that does not torture herself anymore (does that make sense?)
Doesn't to me, but again, I'm TIRED and hoping that things I'm getting aren't cross overs from other readings
How you saw him when you first met: 6 of cups: Something weird here about "dreams" or "dreaming" and "clouds" whatever that may mean :confused: almost as if you were waiting for him... you just "fit"
How he saw you on your first meeting: 7 of cups reversed: Again with the dreams... and dreamer... I have NO clue what these two things mean, but find it significan that your "first meeting" cards are only one apart.
Your anxieties/unconscious fears: 9 of Wands: You're being put in the position of being more practical than you are used to now... and trying not to become jaded or cynical, and finding it hard... you don't want to lose yourself/who you know yourself to be/who you are in the changes you are peceiving in your life... holding onto the past will keep you from growing... when you are standing at a window.. are you on the inside looking out. or on the outside looking in and why?
His anxieties/unconscious fears: 7 of Pentacles : Patience and Committment... of two minds about your current circumstances... do you stick with what you know, or do you abandon it and go for something new (is he supposed to re-up soon? or has he already?)
External influences on you: 2 of Swords: again with a decision... a choice between the heart and the mind...
External influences on him: The Sun reversed: Hmmm... a lack of confidence...
Where this relationship will go: 3 of cups reversed: A completion of the first stage of a process.. the foundations have been laid. Be aware of the little things that can block your way to happiness... watch out that those little things do not blow up into big things before your eyes... communicate, be honest and tell one another how much you love each other... just because you are wearing the rings now, doesn't mean that you don't have to say the words anymore
Ok this tired PSYCH-OOOOO is going to bed. I hope this holds meaning for you Laura, hun.
*huggles you*
~ Christina
