Here is your relationship spread.
Before I begin I have to say there are a LOT of sixes and sevens in your cards... I have NO clue what they mean though
What you bring to the relationship: 2 of Cups - A HAPPY reunion! (yes, I know that you told me he just came home...
but the cards say so too
) A "starting over" or a new stage... rebirth in a relationship.
Where you are now, in relation to him: 4 of Pentacles (reversed) - Have you been saving money while he was away and now feel free to "loosen" the purse strings... this has a feeling of sharing where you once were holding tight... or maybe it's just that now there are TWO of you spending that money :wink:
What you are hoping to get from the relationship: The Lovers - (the number six is here) Ahem... do I really need to explain this card when he's been gone so long? :blush:
What he brings to this relationship: Page of Pentacles (reversed) - Though he has little control over his profession I don't get that he's particularly upset about that... this card feels "odd" I'm not sure why.... I can't get much out of this one...
What he is getting from your relationship: 6 of Pentacles(reversed) - (yup, another six) He gives a great deal of himself, but expects nothing in return ... there may be times when you are so busy dealing with life (and kids) that he may feel a little neglected... they are rare, but do occur...
What he hopes to achieve/experience with you: 9 of Pentacles (reversed) - He may feel a bit unappreciated... let him know how proud you are of him and how much you appreciate the sacrifices that he makes for your family... the life of a military family is hard, how much harder is it for the service memeber?
How you see him: The Chariot - He has a definite sense of direction and purpose. He is very good at making solid and rational decisions...
How he sees you: Knight of Swords - Powerful... though you can be a bit forceful at times...
How you saw him when you first met: The Devil - ( :confused: Huh?) Temptation... temptation and something that you knew was wrong but felt too good to be wrong? Does that make sense? It's all I can get and is confuzzling me
How he saw you when you first met: Knight of Wands - Red, red, red... and fire. Very passionate and dynamic, extroverted and full of life and enthusiasm. You move and inspire others around you with your forceful energy.
Your anxieties and unconscious fears: 2 of Pentacles (reversed) - Change in the finances... did his pay change when he came home? something here about money that is worrying you... also a reluctance to change...
His anxieties and unconscious fears: 2 of Swords - A decision... a recent decision to change something that is a worry... (wonder why both of your anxieties/fears involve the #2 :confused: )
External influences on you: 7 of Pentacles - Harvest... the fruits of your labor/efforts are now being realized... could this be grades?
External influences on him: The Sun (reversed) -
Could this be leaving the sun and heat behind? I bet he's cold
Where your relationship will go: 6 of Cups (reversed) - Be sure that you two remember to take care of each other and nurture your relationship... make certain that you do not take one another for granted... you've both had it rough keeping your family together through this seperation and it won't be the last, make sure that both of you know and TELL one another how much you appreciate and love each other for doing what you do to keep it together.
I hope this holds meaning for you hun.
~ Christina
