FluffyAFPrincess

[Christina]

Your turn, hun... you've been VERY patient

Present Position: Judgement (reversed) - (The number 20 is significant here... didn't you say your b-day is coming up? I thought you were turning 21...) You have spent so much of your life reviewing your actions, weighing your behavior, and taking care of so much around you that you haven't yet had a chance to experience all of the fun and care-free days that come with youth... don't spend so much of your time worrying about what "may be" and spend more of it enjoying "what IS"... before your young years slip away from you... get out and have some fun

Immediate Influences: 6 of Pentacles (reversed) - You have an open and generous spirit.. but your generosity is rarely returned to you in kind... keep close watch that someone isn't taking advantage of you....

Your Life: King of Pentacles (reversed) - (This feels like your father, but could be anyone...) Someone not very well respected... a figure of authority who is unstable, and impractical... (probably has to do with what you mentioned about your brother) Also indicates that you are not "wowed" by material wealth, or items...

Root of the Reading: 3 of Swords (reversed) - An end to the heartbreak... you've finally come to a place where you love yourself and know yourself... not only that you love another and know that you are loved in return.... this is creating stability and a strong foundation in your life....

Past Influences: Knight of Swords - (How long have you and your DH been together?... was meeting him some sort of catalyst for you?? This is a soldier flying on a bald eagle... but somehow this doesn't really "FEEL" like it's him... it feels like a younger, more inexperienced you...but I'm not certain, can't quite put my finger on this or what this is... SO many air/swords cards in your spreads, but none of them are female... it's interesting...) Dramatic change, new perspectives... upheaval. A time of conflict and trauma that you weathered and made it through...

Fugure Influences: King of Swords - (Ok, now I am fairly certain that the figures in these swords cards are you... but they're all male, which is kind of funny... unless you're a tomboy, in which case it makes perfect sense lol) A person with a strong regard for truth and justice... follows a sound ethical code.... an advocate for fairness and equality...

Your Feelings: The Tower - You are shaken... the foundations of your life, the security that you feel is being threatened... do not worry, all of the other cards point to your strength and how you have survived... you will weather this storm as well...

Outside Influences: 2 of Swords - Indecision/Stalemate... you will continue to feel trapped until you can bring yourself to confront your fears and make a decision (no idea what the decision refers to... but there is something hanging in the balance and only your choice will make the difference) This tension will have to be faced sooner or later, and continuing to weight the pros and cons may simply deepen your indecision....

Hopes and Fears: 9 of Wands - I think this has to do with the last card as well... do you see this as a cage to trap you, or as a window of opportunity? How you perceive your situation will make all the difference for you...

Outcome: Page of Swords - You still FEEL yourself to be inexperienced and somewhat "unprepared", but you are NOT... you are far more capable and ready than you give yourself credit for... take the bull by the horns, kiss your fears goodbye and GO for it

I have NO clue what this "decision" or "thing" is... it just feels like there is something weighing on you.... sorry if this makes no sense or I am WAAAAY off.. was distracted midway through

Hope this holds meaning for you hun... if not , I will be happy to try again

Take care,
Christina

[FluffyAFPrincess]

HOly mother of God...... that's just creepy!! WEIRD!!!!

and yes, i have been facing some indecision in my life, and yes, i was a tomboy for a very long time (you grow up in a houseful of boys you get to be like that). BTW, my DH isn't too thrilled that he's not in it. Is there any way you could do a spread on just the two of us? Just to see where we are in our relationship. (BTW, I met him four years ago, just before my senior year of high school, been married almost three years)

[Christina]

I remember from a long time ago that you wanted a relationship spread... I haven't done one of these in a loooong time, so if it's not accurate I'm sorry... I'm out of practice. Keeping my fingers crossed that I haven't lost my "touch" :pray:

What you bring to the relationship: 10 of Wands - You are very heavily burdened right now. You may have allowed people to place too many of their responsiblities and/or problems on your shoulders. This is causing you a great deal of stress.

Where you are now, in relation to your husband: The Magician (reversed) - You may be having some communication issues at present. Be sure that you BOTH are open about how you feel and about WHAT you are feeling... communiation isn't just about talking, it's also about listening effectively... actively. You both need some down time to spend just with each other and SHARE be honest and be open even if you are not sure that you message will be received well.

What you are hoping to get from this relationship: Queen of Swords (reversed) - You want to be taken care of... you have always been the strong one, the one to take care of everything for everyone else... now you want to be pampered and coddled and treated like a princess. You want him to take care of you.

What he brings to this relationship: Ace of Wands (reversed) - (Has he considered going to school/college or going BACK recently and had some trouble with that?) He's been a bit low on energy lately.. this may sound completely wrong, but has he been somewhat depressed lately? There is a feeling of not having control over what he does and being unhappy with that...

What he is getting from your relationship: Page of Cups (reversed) - You want him to be more romantic and he wants YOU to be more romantic... he wants you to take the initiative more often... make him know that you desire him, that you find him attractive... seduce him. :blush: He's feeling a bit neglected... and it's probably because you are so busy doing for others, it leaves you little time to take care of you and him....

What he is hoping to experience/achieve with you: 6 of Cups (reversed) - He wants to be able to give AND receive emotionally with you... I'm not sure which of you grew up in a home where there was a lack of displays of affection, but he hopes that you can both move past this... one of you was not accustomed to being shown love on a regular basis....

How you see him: The Sun - (something significant about the number 19... feels like an age, but I'm not absolutely certain) This sounds REALLY corny but, he lights up your life :loved: He has shown you things that you were not aware of (enlightenment) has brought you warmth (and love) he has helped you to see things about you and about your life that you were not aware of....

How he sees you: 2 of Swords - You are caught between following your heart and following your head... you want to do what is right, but your dual nature causes you conflict in determining which is which, the road of logic or the road of love....

How you saw him when you first met: The High Priestess (reversed) - Hmmm.... this is a bit strange... did he have a LOW opinion of women in general? This one is VERY hard for me to read... but something about him caught your attention in how he (not how he treats women) but what he thinks or the things that he says about them... could be wrong, but that's all that I'm getting here.... :confused: also something about macho or denying his "feminine" side

How he saw you when you first met: 3 of Pentacles - You were working hard on learning... gaining knowledge and practical skills... self sufficient and practical.... perhaps too much so?


Your anxieties and unconscious fears: Temperance (reversed) - (number 15 here ... also feels like someone's age) You need to remember that if you are unhappy with something you CAN (you are ALLOWED, you are ABLE) to say "no" or to not support it... and you do not need to feel guilty or "bad" for doing so... also, something here about "healing" something from your past... (could this be the 15? your age 15?) it colors your life today and it is time for you to learn from it and let it go.

His anxieties and unconscious fears: King of Wands - (what was his father like?) His postion... he is a man of leadership and inspiration and being in this position is a great responsibility... he encourages others to reach their full potential but may have some questions regarding his own abilities (tell him they are unfounded, I said so :wink: )

External influences on you: 7 of Swords - Sneaky, sneaky, someone around you is not the friend that they appear to be... I get the feeling that someone is taking advantage of you... be careful.

External influences on him: The Chariot (reversed) - A lost sense of direction? It is time to live in the present and not the past... redefine goals and move forward.

Where this relationship is going: 9 of Pentacles - Recognition... a gain of acknowledgement and esteem not only in each other's eyes, but in the eyes of those around you... Achievement on a material level and success ...

I hope this holds meaning for you, Hun.

~ Christina

[FluffyAFPrincess]

LOL, it's about 75-80 percent accurate. HUbby read it and laughed, because you hit some of his things dead on and some were a little off. Thanks again, chica!

[Christina]

Only 75%-80% Dagnabbit, I'm losing my touch!

I'd better get back in my game :weep: