OH NO, I'M BANNED!

[Slayde]

Guest-anon said:

Hey Slayde.. (CW)... when you all stop lying about them.. and posting your baby acts about them.. I will stop coming here...

BTW.. Did you take care of that Herpes thing??

WTF!??! I -do not- have herpes! I have HPV, get your $%^&!@# diseases straight!! HPV doesn't even resemble herpes, so don't think you're all high and mighty. Do Not attempt to insult my disease from RAPE... if you do, you are more horrible of a person than I gave you credit for.

[ANON]

I don't know Aussie.. do you supposed anything I have said is any worse than any of the things that have been said here about "those good women" or to me??

I tell you what... you think I am a hypocrite... I will move over and make room for you... because... so are all of you. Read the mental comments... and the hos comments made even before I came here.

I don't really know what to say about trying to figure out what GOD may be thinking about me being so angry and getting down in the dirt and behaving like all of you. I really don't.

I just know it seems to be the only language you all speak. And what you do.. is given back to you... you can all sit here and pretend you have not said anything mean and it is all me.. and I am a bully.. and I am a bad Christian.. or convince yourself of anything you want... even blame those innocent women for my behavior... but its not so... You have said what you said.. I have replied in like kind. It has nothing to do with them. They don't pay my bills... or tell me what to do. I don't speak for them... or that site... I stand here.. on my own. And I don't see why you direct your anger at me.. towards them.. isn't that a wee bit childish?? Just because one woman... (that would be me).. got down on your level.. and beat up ALL of you. You need to be more honest with yourselves here.

You all wanted a SITE of your own to show them, and now you know what they go through everyday with petty little childish women (most of you) who think the world revolves around them. What I have said to you.. I venture to guess those women have had to read in email many times over... when someone thought they had the RIGHT to say it to them. Don't you get it?? You guys created this in me.. when you did what you did. All you have to do is leave them alone....

I will take my "hypocritical, angry, hateful, rude, mean, upsetting, disgusting, in your face, spin you up, vindictive comments and leave. I never wanted to come here. You BROUGHT me here. Anytime you are ready to stop I am ready to leave.

Don't you see.. Seagirl is just using you to promote her site... she knows as long as she doesn't edit me or ban me.. you all will stay mad and keep posting and her little site will continue. She will post some long.. "not so" post to me now and prove my point. The fact that she was gonna "close" this site to posters and make it members only, and didn't proves that. She needs this to feel important. I am not important.. and I don't need to be important.

I just have my opinion. And my anger for now.
Girls.. you need to take a look around. In the REAL world.. when you slap someone they slap back... that is all I have done. Thanks for sharing though.

[Anon]

"and btw anon... "I pity your bi-polar a$$" Is this your justification for being pious over me??

CW... If Seagirl cared one bit about your feelings or your privacy she would have edited me...

I openly do not care about your feelings.. but she claims to... ?

Maybe you should pick your friends better and where you post your personal information...

being "bi-polar" is just being bipolar.... but you girls should really protect yourselves better.. truely.

[Aussie]

Thats the thing, yes, everyone HAS a right to voice their anger and opinion, that is the right and laws of the country. Everyone is entitled to feel angry and hurt. It is normal. But to perpetuate a cycle of continuing anger and hurt as you are continuing to do so, means that no one will stop saying things, everytime you make a comment, how ever disapparging it is, or they reply or make a comment and you reply, the circle will continue to perpetuate.
You ARE welcome here, despite what you think. No one wants to have to deal with pettiness, we all deal with it on a daily basis. This site however does allow one thing the other doesnt, it does allow different threads, for good or bad, some people enjoy that.
Perhaps some of us feel angry that we were wrongfully banned from the other site and turned here to vent our anger as we had no where else to go. Some of us have been banned for no reason, I was one. I will not go into it, but I was DEEPLY hurt. It is over. I will continue to go to the other board. I will continue to read the other board. I do worry about some of the people there. I like to know they are ok.

I am not buying into anyones promotion of anything. I am a free and grown adult. I choose where and when i wish to be. I will not be used by anyone else and I dont think to many people on this board will be either. We are here because there was no other place for us to go. Simple answer.

As I said, I would love for you to stay and find new and interesting friends. Dont disparage others for there beliefs or views, the world was founded on everyone's views and beliefs, if it wasnt,dont you think it would be a very boring place ? with everyone the same ?. There HAS to be some individulaity amongest everyone. It makes it what is it. Sometimes yes, things can be said, but there are always appologies that can be made or else friends wouldnt survive as friends.
Stay, feel welcome. Learn about these people. You might even get to like one or two of them.

My olive branch has been extended to you.

[Farrah]

i know exactly how to pick my friends....i surely dont need anyone especially you telling me about friends... you have come here and attacked my friends and no one from here has been on the other site to bother anyone... leave us alone and just make yourself useful and go away.....

we are not bothering you and no one brought you here, you choose to be here to harass us..... just like you defend your friends well i defend mine and plus we have free speech here we can talk about whoever we want when ever we want with out having you to attack us...

just go away and leave us alone.... geesh is that so much to ask for....

[Aussie]

Guys, lets chill out. There was a note of somewhat appology and sincerity in the posters post. I am not going to keep this cycle of hatred going, it is emotionally draining to be attacked continually.
I belive the poster has tried to make an appology. Perhaps. WE should let it sit for a while and maybe re-read her posting. Then if anyone wants to or needs to post to her, then try to do so with out the mud slinging. Yes, there are some VERY angry ladies here and I dont blame them, some terrible things have been said, but that is up to the POSTER to fix.
Lets just relax ok .

[carla]

Guest-ANON said:

I. I never wanted to come here. You BROUGHT me here. Anytime you are ready to stop I am ready to leave.

Don't you see.. Seagirl is just using you to promote her site... she knows as long as she doesn't edit me or ban me.. you all will stay mad and keep posting and her little site will continue. She will post some long.. "not so" post to me now and prove my point. The fact that she was gonna "close" this site to posters and make it members only, and didn't proves that. She needs this to feel important. I am not important.. and I don't need to be important.

I just have my opinion. And my anger for now.
Girls.. you need to take a look around. In the REAL world.. when you slap someone they slap back... that is all I have done. Thanks for sharing though.

[anon]

aussie.. very graceful of you...

I have not apologized.. I have admitted that my comments stem from anger.

Take a wee peek back to earlier today.. When Holly cut and pasted what had happened to her and used it to try make a spectacle of someone I hold dear, as all of you do each other... What makes that right?

In seeing that in my post... Aussie.. you hit the nail on the head.

You all want a quality, growing site... well that will have to be laid down too. They earned their site rewards, and so will you... when you out grow this game. You say this is a good site.. and you are here to help others.. but you spend so time hoping to "show them" ... WHY? Have you? Do you think you will? What will you gain if you do? "IF" you did somehow make them pay and look bad for what happened to you, or what I have said... who has it hurt? Them? Or the ### of girls who have no idea about this situation?
Do you care about others or not?

All I am saying to you is what you have said to me... in truth....

"IF you are gonna talk the talk... you better walk the walk"... God Bless.

[Aussie]

Glo-ria. As close to an appology as anyone IS going to get at this point in time. At lot of things that have been said on this board, stem from anger or percieved anger and snubs and hurts. I am sure that given time the posters here, including your self will see and understand that there is no need for the anger.
I am sure it is everyones wish to be able to help others, as it is the wish of the other board and many other boards out there. everyone has their own views on how to do that. Mud slinging, how ever is not going to solve the problem.
There IS nothing to be gained in making others look bad, it doesnt MAKE anyone look bad, except to blow off steam and as I mentioned, some very hurtful things HAVE been said in the past. Everyone I understand IS free to participate in all sections of this board, but hurtful comments arent always the best way to make a growing board better. I think that everyone WILL settle down (it is MY hope) when all the inflamatory comments cease. I understand HOW hard it is for you to sit back and just relax about it. I know also that many members of the other board, including some of the higher board members themselves visit here. As do many of the posters here, visit the other board. I know that Christina has tried to keep the identity of the other board, not a secret, but by referring to it by another name, simply SO that people who wish to join there and post in both places are not turned against it.
You have SOME good postings on the other board, some good advice at times. You should try to post some helpful advice here .
Let everyone blow off steam. I am sure they will stop soon enough if no inflamatory postings all stop. As I said, everyone has their own belief's, they arent always the same as others and things like that can contribute and make for a GOOD discussion and a new understanding. Beliefs are what most people hold onto to get them through the tough times, other things are their friends.
Yes, you are only replying to what has been said, but it is time to stop now perpetuating the cycle of anger and hurt. And no, I dont expect MY small postings to be able to stop a whole board from the hurt some of them have felt about personal attacks. Instead of attacking Slayde for her diease, ask her, find out why she has what she has, try to be understanding of her hurt. That is just one example. I believe we should lead by example.
I also FULLY realize that there may be MORE mud slinging to come, before people get it out of their systems. Try not to rise to it, try to understand and talk, you will be as I have said before welcomed here as a friend. I can not control the thoughts and minds of others..........but I can only try to suggest and make the suggestions.

I am sure Christina will be pleasantly suprised to see that you think this will be a good board. I think given TIME and GROWING that it will become a great board as well. As I have asked you before, Join, make some good contributions, you have a wealth of knowledge that we can all share and work with. Just please try not to judge anyone by what has happened or what they feel.

[Strix]

Guest-ANON said:

Well now you can see what it has to do with me.. this is funny.. I agree.. Banned.. one thread at a time.. until I no longer have to look at you.

Do you really think you have a "RIGHT" to post there and come here to insult them, and hold them up to public ridicule like you do.. and then if I defend them.. you "WONDER" about it?? Are you really that BLANK??

You are a guest over there.... and a bad one at that. And thats why its so funny to say the things I do here.. because you treat them like you do...

:lurk: umm ... at least WE are honest about what WE say! Come on Anon ... wanna play? Quite frankly I am rather BORED with the behavior YOU have shown, AND if those women from the other board APPROVE of it (which BTW THEY have stated they are ASHAMED of it) then go :canoodle: with this some more.
Go away, cause YOU are definately not welcome here. Hatefulness NEVER is.

Holly... IF you ever get TRUTH from them let us know :hugs: