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Post by Strix on Mar 24, 2004 23:13:18 GMT -5
Go read it ... I didn't say Blank Blank and I didn't cuss. What do you mean by "different responses on different pages"... make sense woman!! Stop that drinking all day at the computer before you go to your stripper job!! :joke: You really are a very insecure woman aren't you? Does it bother you so much that WE don't need you? Does it bother you so much that WE don't want you? You are nothing more than a JOKE to us ... Oh & from what I understand THE OTHER BOARD thinks you are a joke too!!! :joke:
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Post by Strix on Mar 24, 2004 23:15:34 GMT -5
Hey Slayde.. (CW)... when you all stop lying about them.. and posting your baby acts about them.. I will stop coming here... BTW.. Did you take care of that Herpes thing?? No, seems you are still around, but if YOU left the Herpes would leave too ... after all since they are YOURS that only makes sense now doesn't it. Stop LYING ...ROFLMAO they lied not us. THEY even talk trash about you!!! You really are truly too funny ...
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Post by Strix on Mar 24, 2004 23:17:34 GMT -5
Now before you get your Pokemon cards all in a tizzy there Voodoo woman and go editing my post to the CW... keep in mind.. she posted about it in plain veiw for all to see.. I was just concerned. !$@# Christina ... when did you start into Voodoo ... told you we know plenty of spells & rituals already. :joke: Again you need a lesson, CHRISTIANITY CAME FROM PAGANISM. Read the history books ... that is if you can comprehend them.
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Post by guess on Mar 24, 2004 23:24:54 GMT -5
Well now pond scum... you will have to prove that to me. Before I believe it... and even so.. They did nothing to any of you... but still you are so petty where they are concerned.
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Post by irishchick on Mar 24, 2004 23:31:37 GMT -5
And how do you know that they did nothing to us? You don't know anything that happened. I'm not even sure that I know exactly what happened. What happened to me though is that one day I'm allowed to post, the next I cannont. They never told me why after my many emails. I believe that it's because I came over here to check things out. That's what they told others "for associationg with others". We aren't in high school, I've matured. I wasn't even on that site long enough to stir up any trouble. I know you don't know who I am & it's not important. How can we not be bitter we most of us were good contributing members there? We all tried to help each other out in times of need & sorrow & loneliness & happiness, then we get banned for visiting another site? I think you would be mad too. If you don't know the whold story, you can't judge. I know you don't care to know the whole story but open your eyes up a little bit.
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Post by Holly7 on Mar 24, 2004 23:38:45 GMT -5
I held no one up to public ridicule, I held up a mirror. If you don't like what you see, I suggest you look at who it reflects. Maybe that's who you don't like and don't want to see?
I have a right to express my opinions, just as you have a right to express yours. I feel I was treated rather shabbily by you and your so-called friends, and I don't appreciate it. If they would care to explain why I was denied access while you are allowed to continue spewing vitriol, I would welcome the discussion.
I will defer to your judgement on being a bad guest since you are the queen of the bad guests, rude, uninvited, spiteful, petty, and obnoxious. You would know what it takes to make a bad guest.
I deleted the names of the innocent parties involved in the post about high 5-ing each other, as they have no bearing on this discussion. That's what the "blank and blank" stands for. And different responses on different pages refers to your prurient display here and mild mannered comments on your "friend's" board. Exhibit A, from this board:
Exhibit B from your "friend's" board:
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Post by Christina on Mar 24, 2004 23:59:10 GMT -5
"I just know it seems to be the only language you all speak."
I speak other languages Glo-ria... but you will not listen to reason in any language....
"And what you do.. is given back to you..."
So you are receiving...
"you can all sit here and pretend you have not said anything mean and it is all me.."
I'll admit to having said mean things, but only in response to things said to me... I don't start shyt, but I don't take it either....
"even blame those innocent women for my behavior... but its not so..."
I don't blame them... this is all quite obviously you...
"You have said what you said.. I have replied in like kind. It has nothing to do with them. They don't pay my bills... or tell me what to do. I don't speak for them... or that site... I stand here.. on my own. And I don't see why you direct your anger at me.. towards them.. isn't that a wee bit childish??"
You certainly appear to be an expert on "childish"....
"Just because one woman... (that would be me).. got down on your level.. and beat up ALL of you. You need to be more honest with yourselves here."
You haven't "beat" anyone up Glo-ria, you just seem to enjoy THINKING that you have...
"You all wanted a SITE of your own to show them,"
Not true, no one here needs to "prove" anything to them... in fact, I initially started this board ONLY as a place to put my Tarot readings as they REQUESTED that I no longer post such things on their board... I respected their wishes, put up HAFH and got banned for that.. nothing more.. as I told them, now I am telling you... the "badmouthing" did not occur until AFTER I and several others were banned without cause or justification.... and actually, there has not been any "badmouthing" since, most of us have moved on.. but YOU keep coming here and bringing it back...
" and now you know what they go through everyday with petty little childish women (most of you)"
I don't see how they could possibly be going through what you're putting us through... I can only speak for myself, but I know that I would never post anything even REMOTELY as awful as what you have posted here....
"who think the world revolves around them."
Amazing, the gall you have to make such a generalized assumption.... you don't know us, you most certainly don't know me...
"What I have said to you.. I venture to guess those women have had to read in email many times over... "
Again, I can only speak for myself, but I can PROVE that every email they've ever received from me has been more than fair and civil... I've no need to attack them in a juvenile and undiginified manner, which are what your posts here most certainly are...
"Don't you get it?? You guys created this in me..."
Oh no... don't think you can cop out on this. This anger and resentment is about YOU and about YOUR life, no one here "created" it in you... it was already there, just looking for an excuse to come out...
" when you did what you did. All you have to do is leave them alone...."
What exactly is it that we've supposedly "done" to them?? That is what I don't get, I don't visit their site, I no longer post there, I have in fact.. LEFT them alone... what on earth makes you think that we haven't.. most of us have moved on LONG ago...
"I never wanted to come here. You BROUGHT me here. "
Ummmm, OK... so who exactly is FORCING you to read this?? who is it that is MAKING you come here?
"Anytime you are ready to stop I am ready to leave"
Stop WHAT?? What is it that we are supposedly doing??
"Don't you see.. Seagirl is just using you to promote her site..."
ROFL... Glo-ria.. I don't need to USE people.. I don't NEED to promote this site.. in fact, I haven't promoted it at all... I'm not getting any money for this, I don't have anything material to gain here... and I DO and HAVE put quite a bit of time and effort into creating this board... what I get OUT of it is a sense of peace and of accomplishment.. I also have a haven where I can interact and converse with wonderful people... beyond that, there is no "glory" in this...
"she knows as long as she doesn't edit me or ban me.. you all will stay mad and keep posting and her little site will continue."
Glo-ria... this site DOES get hits and posts when you are NOT around as well... do not flatter yourself so much, this site doesn't revolve around your childish displays of rage... as far as editing or banning you, I have left that up to the other members and guests, it was THEIR decision to leave the board open to guests and not to ban you.. not mine.
"She will post some long.. "not so" post to me now and prove my point."
And which point is this long "not so" post supposed to prove?
"The fact that she was gonna "close" this site to posters and make it members only, and didn't proves that."
Again, I leave those decisions to the other board members, I don't make those decisions on my own.. I ask for input and I ask for opinions.. you are only here by THEIR good graces, not just mine... the fact that this is still an open board only goes to prove that we know the good of keeping it open far outweighs the bad....
"She needs this to feel important. I am not important.. and I don't need to be important."
LOL... I do not need this to "feel" important... I have a rewarding and successful career in a valuable field, I am the MOST important person in the world to a special little girl, I am married to a wonderful man who adores me, and I have a family that supports and loves me... to the people that matter, I am important enough... I don't need to throw my weight around on a message board to make myself feel good about myself....
"Girls.. you need to take a look around. In the REAL world.. when you slap someone they slap back... that is all I have done."
The problem with that theory Glo-ria, is that YOU seem to think that we've slapped you first.. it is in fact YOU that is the aggressor here... not we....
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Post by Christina on Mar 25, 2004 0:06:52 GMT -5
CW... If Seagirl cared one bit about your feelings or your privacy she would have edited me... I openly do not care about your feelings.. but she claims to... ? I DO in fact, care about their feelings which is why I ASK them what they want to do about the nuisance that you are making of yourself.. but I also know that they are all adults and respect their abilities to handle their business on their own.. we are ALL strong, wonderful, & capable women... the first post I ever made here was a promise not to "babysit" and out of respect for the other women here, I ASK their permission before I intervene on their behalf... how ARROGANT it would be for me to ASSUME that they cannot fend for themselves... I know them all better than that... if the need my help, they will ask for it.. if they feel that they are being wronged, I know that they will let me know and I RESPECT them all, each and every one of them enough not to make decisions for them that they are more than capable of making for themselves... :hugs:
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Post by Strix on Mar 25, 2004 0:10:16 GMT -5
I don't know Aussie.. do you supposed anything I have said is any worse than any of the things that have been said here about "those good women" or to me?? I tell you what... you think I am a hypocrite... I will move over and make room for you... because... so are all of you. Read the mental comments... and the hos comments made even before I came here. I don't really know what to say about trying to figure out what GOD may be thinking about me being so angry and getting down in the dirt and behaving like all of you. I really don't. I just know it seems to be the only language you all speak. And what you do.. is given back to you... you can all sit here and pretend you have not said anything mean and it is all me.. and I am a bully.. and I am a bad Christian.. or convince yourself of anything you want... even blame those innocent women for my behavior... but its not so... You have said what you said.. I have replied in like kind. It has nothing to do with them. They don't pay my bills... or tell me what to do. I don't speak for them... or that site... I stand here.. on my own. And I don't see why you direct your anger at me.. towards them.. isn't that a wee bit childish?? Just because one woman... (that would be me).. got down on your level.. and beat up ALL of you. You need to be more honest with yourselves here. You all wanted a SITE of your own to show them, and now you know what they go through everyday with petty little childish women (most of you) who think the world revolves around them. What I have said to you.. I venture to guess those women have had to read in email many times over... when someone thought they had the RIGHT to say it to them. Don't you get it?? You guys created this in me.. when you did what you did. All you have to do is leave them alone.... I will take my "hypocritical, angry, hateful, rude, mean, upsetting, disgusting, in your face, spin you up, vindictive comments and leave. I never wanted to come here. You BROUGHT me here. Anytime you are ready to stop I am ready to leave. Don't you see.. Seagirl is just using you to promote her site... she knows as long as she doesn't edit me or ban me.. you all will stay mad and keep posting and her little site will continue. She will post some long.. "not so" post to me now and prove my point. The fact that she was gonna "close" this site to posters and make it members only, and didn't proves that. She needs this to feel important. I am not important.. and I don't need to be important. I just have my opinion. And my anger for now. Girls.. you need to take a look around. In the REAL world.. when you slap someone they slap back... that is all I have done. Thanks for sharing though. Boy you must have really missed us while you were away ... because you have been so busy here lately. Are we truely that important to you? Do you really need our attention focused on you? Our opinions, do they truely mean that much to you? If you truly do hate us as much as you claim why do you keep coming back to us? Do you want our approval? Do you desire deep within to be able to speak your mind as we do? What about us draws you to us so often? Hmm have you said worse ... well yes actually you have. NONE of us have talked about BATHING in another BLOOD -- truely demented & very unsanitary. You have accused some of us of using Voodoo & another of having Herpes -- again as that is LIES. It is worse. Unlike YOU we voiced our frustrations about being falsely accused of lies. We voiced our opinions when we were promised to have our information REMOVED from a site, & it is still there. Sorry but my name, & other information is not COPYRIGHTED by that other site. We have been HONEST about how we feel, & not LIED to get what we wanted. Mental comments? What that IN OUR OPINIONS you are an unstable person? Yes you are ... I even asked behavioral health, anyone who talks about BATHING in the BLOOD of another is very unstable. Anyone who feels that they must come to a place that is open to everyone, & degrade, insult & lie about those people there, is also very unstable. (They urged me to tell you to visit them SOON, before you hurt yourself or another.) God ... I have asked my Goddess & God to show you pity. To show you the light, & errors of your ways. I have even asked those here who follow other faiths to pray or ask their Goddess or God to also help you. We have all done so, because we know you truely do need help from a higher power, as you will not seek this on your own. Blame the women on the other board for your behavior??? No actually that was just a way to annoy you. You see those other women have assured us that they are deeply ashamed of your behavior. That they did not ask for it, & like us have moved on with their lives. Unfortunately YOU do not see this, nor do you understand this. We are all human, we all have a RIGHT to our emotions, & to our opinions. Which we did ... you unfortunately have not done so. This is very disturbing ... because most normal people do that, vent & move on. That happens when you are BETRAYED by those you think are there to help you. We have found within one another a friendship that you cannot destroy. We have found a bond that is strong & something you would not be able to comprehend. We have found an understanding that you so obviously do not have or you would not be here attacking us. "Beat us all up" the only one you are beating up is yourself & those you claim to be friends to. If you were such a good friend you would not constantly drag this up again. Holly had a right to voice her opinion & her feelings on the matter. As did each of the other ladies. But for someone who does not believe that others should have freedom of speech or religion/faith ... I guess YOU would not understand that, would you? YOUR "other women" basically voiced their opinions by their actions, their words, & their posts ... are YOU telling me WE do not have the same rights? Because last time I checked, I am guarenteed those rights by the Bill of Rights, & the Constitution ... you are aware of what those are right? We wanted a site to come & talk, HONESTLY, OPENLY and WITHOUT JUDGEMENT. Which we have. This is something YOU so obviously do not understand. I do not visit their site, & I have not in a long time. I do not even use the imformation area on that site. Because I cannot do so with an honest heart, I am not a hyprocrit, unlike yourself & SOME of the other ladies. I stand by what I said ... I do NOT want anything further to do with that site. That means I do not visit, I do not post there, I do not access it in any way. I have friends that I know use that site AND I DO NOT trash it to them. I figure they have to develop their opinions based on what they deal with, not based on what I have dealt with. I honestly tell them that I don't use the site & for PERSONAL reason never will, they RESPECT me enough not to push the subject. Of course I could go to the next FRG meeting, or to the local paper with the entire story of what occured ... but have I? No, simply because what is done is done, I have moved on with MY LIFE ... I am assuming that they have as well, & will eventually stand by their word & remove my information. As for what was done, I am sorry but it was done to us ... again, we vented, were honestly about how we felt ... and went on with our lives. Just as those women did the same to us. I truly pity you for not being able to understand something so simple. We have left them alone. YET you have not done so. You claim WE created this in you, how so? Did one of us hold a gun to your head & make you come here? Did we force you to type any of this? No, we did not CREATE anything in you. YOU ARE ENTIRELY RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR ACTIONS. You & only you ... at least WE can accept that about ourselves ... when will you begin to do so? We brought you here? I think that comment also falls under the we "created this in" you lie! Again, YOU & only YOU are RESPONSIBLE for what YOU do. We are NOT responsible for YOUR actions. It is truly sad that YOU cannot understand this. WE did not call you & say "hey come over here." We did not force our way into your home & make you visit this website. WE did NOTHING to you, yet YOU have taken it upon YOURSELF to attack us, embarrass your friends, drag them through the dirt with YOU ... and then attempt to blame YOUR behavior on us. That is just too funny, are you sure you are an adult? I mean it, because most adults are fully able to understand that they are RESPONSIBLE for their actions ... "I don't know" "She/He/They made me do it" "Nobody did it" are all something a child would say. Which is exactly what you are saying to us ... The people here did not make YOU do anything, YOU chose to do it.
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Post by Strix on Mar 25, 2004 0:10:50 GMT -5
The rest of my reply:
Seagirl ... I know her. I don't know you from the garbage laying on the side of the road. We have all discussed this long & hard, & we all agree what is done is done. We were angry, we were hurt ... we have healed, built new friendships, & moved on with our lives. YOU do not know what is discussed on this board because YOU do not have access to the areas were we talk about the ups & downs in our daily lives. YOU are the one who seems content on dragging all this up. As for banning you ... dear please check the thread, WE all voted & gave our opinions about what we thought. Although you are a minor annoyance, WE chose not to become hypercrits like we have seen in the past. WE chose to deal with the problem as adults. Christina asked us for our opinions, she asked us if we believed that was the route to take. BUT since it is SO obvious the route YOU want her to take, it is so obviously not the one that is right. WE will not do what YOU want, & we are not letting you have that type of control in our lives.
Oh & in the REAL world ... you slap some one, YOU get charges pressed against you. Unless you are a child, & then you get the long "you shouldn't do this" talk. ADULTS go to jail for physically attacking others. I really wish you would refrain from doing so here.
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