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Post by Christina on Feb 18, 2004 15:00:39 GMT -5
I have been so stressed and feeling as if my life is on a collision course with something that I can't see but know is there and I have spent nearly every waking moment (and even some sleeping ones) worrying about the crash that I'm expecting.... I have decided that I can't keep living like this... so I am going to "let go" ... all the negativity and my hurt feelings over what has gone on and why we started this... it's time for me to just let it go... so from now on I'm going to try to stay positive and will post one thing here daily, that I am doing to better myself, to stay healthy and to stay happy. Today: I am going to they gym after work and I am eating good healthy food... What will you do to make today better than yesterday? www.lifetimetv.com/reallife/health/wellness/yoga_index.html
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Post by Angelic Avenger on Feb 18, 2004 15:09:40 GMT -5
Umm, well, today is over for me. I cleaned my bathroom. I don't think it has been that clean since we moved in. Tommorrow, I have a doc appt, and it's a different doc than the one i have been seeing for my headaches. But I have seen him before for something else, and he is a pathetic weak minded man. So to make my day better, I am going to !@$% with his head and try to manipulate him into ordering scans for my head because I am so !$@#ED SICK OF THESE HEADACHES!!!!
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Post by antnonie on Feb 18, 2004 15:39:52 GMT -5
When you figure out how to completely "let go" of it let me know. I am trying so hard to "let go" but, It is so hard for me. I do good but slip backwards after a few days. I need to let go of the baggage for me. I know we are talking about different things but sort of the same idea. If you get it figured out before me just let me know.... I need all the help I can get. LOL
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Post by antnonie on Feb 18, 2004 15:41:57 GMT -5
PS. I have lost 20 pounds since DH left. That was for me not him. I need to let go for protection.... I hope you are following.... Maybe I need a ceremony. LOL
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Post by Strix on Feb 18, 2004 17:44:44 GMT -5
you know I do good for a while ... & then something comes up. But you are so right ...
As for me ... I have been trying to do as much positive as I can ... got 2 kids rooms done.
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Post by Farrah on Feb 19, 2004 11:16:22 GMT -5
ok how do you let go... i have tried and tried and tried but i seem to still have bitter feelings and dont know how to let it go... i feel like i have let my dh down by not being able to give him a baby.. his ex is moving down here and wont stop bugging me with helping her find a place... i feel overwhelmed.. i try to be nice and peaceful for my step dd but dang.. do i have to be nice and help.. ughhhhhh any suggestion anyone...
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Post by Strix on Feb 20, 2004 3:37:25 GMT -5
It is different for everyone. You have to find a way to let it out ... journals are great, you can write it down & when you do think about it. Also, exercise helps you clear your head & think. Meditation, & yoga are very good ways to help clear your head & relax your body.
As for your current problems. Hon I wish there were something that could be done. But talk w/ your husband, and work that out. Otherwise, you might find it building up later & causing various other problems. The Ex ... hmm, there are MANY places online that can help her find a place. And if it gets to be too overwhelming talk w/ her & let her know that you would like to help her but at times things are getting to be too much. Let your husband know that as well. That way it cannot be turned around on you.
Good luck dear ... I do hope that in some way things get better.
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Post by Slayde on Feb 20, 2004 6:43:32 GMT -5
I love what you're doing!!! It's so great that instead of letting go by killing yourself in a stressful time, you let go by making things more positive for yourself. That takes the stronger human being. I love it.
May I do it too?
Today I will actually clean the house. haha. ^-^
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Post by Christina on Feb 20, 2004 12:31:12 GMT -5
Yaaaaaaaaaaay for all of us! ;D Strong and wonderful women we are! Today I got up early, did the laundry, made sure everyone got breakfasted, took DH to work (drove him myself so we could have some couple "talk" time ) and even remembered DD's pajama party/pizza day at school today... all BEFORE I even went into work! ;D And the outlaw visit has been cancelled lmao!
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Post by Angelic Avenger on Feb 20, 2004 13:43:11 GMT -5
And today I cleaned the kitchen. Whewf, I'm tired from that. LOL Then tommorrow is the living room/dining room/ office. And Sunday, the bedrooms. And if thewind is not bad on Monday, the girls and I will walk down to the PX area and buy some beautiful (and cheap) fresh flowers from the german vendor. I will have a clean house, so I deserve fresh flowers. I love fresh flowers, they always make me feel better. That, and gives me a chance to work on my floral arrangement talent.;D
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