Post by I cant remember on Apr 28, 2006 9:37:36 GMT -5
I know that up there ^ totally sounds like crap, but it's true.
I was a member here a long time ago. I left b/c I got caught in the crossfire. when (BBB) got torn apart I had friends on both sides. I had people here talking crap about people I really cared about. So I left b/c people couldn't move on.
I still have friends on the other board. I haven't been banned. I have backed off of there considerably, though, b/c people are so vicious lately. I learned about stinkhousesucks, and checked it out. Shocked and saddened that Christina still has such strong feelings. NO, what they did to you was not right. I stood up for you in that chat room the best I could. I was not happy with the result. You and Laura and some of the others were very nice to me when some others weren't as sweet. But I had friends on the other side too, and I left here b/c I felt like I was being pushed to choose by this side. SO, I chose the side that didn't push.
I had suspicions that some of the nasty moods in BBB were because of people on stinkhouse causing some trouble. By the looks of it, it is probably true. I have had recent friends leave BBB and go to Stink. Again, I feel caught in the middle.
I want my friends back. I'm sick of the bitter, backstabbing behavior. We're grown women. We are supposed to be a beautiful, powerful, yet peaceful race. So why are we drawing blood without need? Not just you guys, but the other side. I feel like a red-headed stepchild either way. I have no place anywhere. I have heard some awful things about what gos on in member only and hidden forums on these sites. What if I joined here/there, only to find people I thought were my friends were bashing me behind my back? How on earth do you get new members if they come to you after being treated unfairly there, only to find themselves torn apart in a thread 2 pages down?
I don't know what to do or where to go. I am sad and angry that there doesn't seem to be a HAPPY place without malice with any of my online friends. I tried to register with SS, and have had no response. I dont want to be a spy. I just wanted to test the waters. If my old friends rip me apart as mercilessly as they have some of my other friends who have seen themselves in your forums, then I dont want to be there. I want comfort, support, a place to yell and a shoulder to lean on. What I had 2 years ago at BBB. I don't know if I can have it on any of the 3 boards. But I guess I'm trying.
Maybe I will know by the response I get here.
I was a member here a long time ago. I left b/c I got caught in the crossfire. when (BBB) got torn apart I had friends on both sides. I had people here talking crap about people I really cared about. So I left b/c people couldn't move on.
I still have friends on the other board. I haven't been banned. I have backed off of there considerably, though, b/c people are so vicious lately. I learned about stinkhousesucks, and checked it out. Shocked and saddened that Christina still has such strong feelings. NO, what they did to you was not right. I stood up for you in that chat room the best I could. I was not happy with the result. You and Laura and some of the others were very nice to me when some others weren't as sweet. But I had friends on the other side too, and I left here b/c I felt like I was being pushed to choose by this side. SO, I chose the side that didn't push.
I had suspicions that some of the nasty moods in BBB were because of people on stinkhouse causing some trouble. By the looks of it, it is probably true. I have had recent friends leave BBB and go to Stink. Again, I feel caught in the middle.
I want my friends back. I'm sick of the bitter, backstabbing behavior. We're grown women. We are supposed to be a beautiful, powerful, yet peaceful race. So why are we drawing blood without need? Not just you guys, but the other side. I feel like a red-headed stepchild either way. I have no place anywhere. I have heard some awful things about what gos on in member only and hidden forums on these sites. What if I joined here/there, only to find people I thought were my friends were bashing me behind my back? How on earth do you get new members if they come to you after being treated unfairly there, only to find themselves torn apart in a thread 2 pages down?
I don't know what to do or where to go. I am sad and angry that there doesn't seem to be a HAPPY place without malice with any of my online friends. I tried to register with SS, and have had no response. I dont want to be a spy. I just wanted to test the waters. If my old friends rip me apart as mercilessly as they have some of my other friends who have seen themselves in your forums, then I dont want to be there. I want comfort, support, a place to yell and a shoulder to lean on. What I had 2 years ago at BBB. I don't know if I can have it on any of the 3 boards. But I guess I'm trying.
Maybe I will know by the response I get here.